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5 Unexpected Facts about Divorce

Here are 5 unexpected facts about divorce from around the world:

 

1) In the USA, if one partner smokes, a marriage is 75% more likely to end in divorce according to statistics.

2) Couples in Republican states are 27% more likely to divorce than couples in Democratic states, however couples in Republican states do get married at younger ages.

3) Divorce is illegal in the Philippines and in Malta.

4) The divorce rate for couples over 65 years old has doubled since 1980.

5) Around 6% of Americans marry, divorce, and then remarry each other.

 

If you find yourself going through a divorce and need some help then just call us on 01246 555610 and we can book you in for a FREE consultation.

 

 

By Emma Newman on 5 Oct 2017

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5 Crazy Reasons for Divorce

Marriages can break down in so many different ways, but here are some of our favourites from around the world:

1) In 1997, a California woman filed for divorce after 25 years of what her husband believed had been a good marriage. Two years later the truth came out, in December 1996, just 11 days before she filed for the divorce, she had won $1.3 million on the Lottery. Thereafter to keep the money all to herself she filed for divorce. When the truth came out, a Los Angeles family court judge ruled that the woman had violated state asset disclosure laws and awarded every cent of her lottery winnings to her ex-husband.

2) Earlier this year, an American woman left her husband of 22 years when she found out he had voted for Donald Trump to become president. Apparently, this "betrayal”, was the tipping point. "It opened up areas between us I had not faced before," she explained.

3) One Japanese couple who had been married for six years, watched the movie Frozen and he made the mistake of asking her, "Did you really think it was that good?" Well, she did, and the fact that he asked that question made her think about what kind of person he was.

4) A Russian man ran out of money while playing poker, so he bet his wife and lost. When his wife found out, she left him for the man who'd won her and her heart.

5) In 2001, a woman suspected that her spouse was cheating on her because their parrot started repeating several phrases of the husband’s telephone calls with his lover. The wife was visiting her parents for a full month, and when she got back, the parrot uttered words such as: “divorce”, “I love you” and “be patient”. She knew something was wrong, so she decided to divorce him.

 

If you find yourself going through a divorce and need some help then just call us on 01246 555610 and we can book you in for a FREE consultation.

By Emma Newman on 5 Oct 2017

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No Fault Divorces Legal?

  To get a divorce in the United Kingdom you need to prove that the marriage has broken down, that can be shown in 5 ways:

  • Adultery
  • Unreasonable behavior
  • Desertion
  • You have lived apart for 2 years and your partner agrees to the divorce
  • You have lived apart for 5 years, even if your partner doesn’t agree

However, what about if there has been no wrongdoing by your partner and you just simply want a divorce?

Unfortunately in the UK this cannot be done, the law requires a reason to end the marriage.

However, many other countries have made no fault divorces legal! These countries include: Australia, Canada, China, Russia, Spain, Sweden and the United States. New York was the last state in America to legalise no fault divorces, this happened in 2010.

Although no fault divorces would save a lot of people from unhappy marriages, this is something the UK are not planning on changing just yet.

If you have decided to divorce and are looking for advice on how to proceed, call 01246 555 610 for a free initial consultation with one of our experienced solicitors.  

By Claire Clark on 5 May 2017

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Preparing for Divorce?

Have you or a loved one been thinking of divorce? It’s a good idea to read up on divorce and get yourself familiar with what’s to come next. Here are some tips for preparing for divorce:

  1. Be absolutely positive you want a divorce
  2. Accept that your divorce is what needs to happen
  3. Get yourself a good solicitor
  4. Get support from friends and family
  5. Set realistic goals for the future
  6. Try to act civil with your spouse
  7. Hope for the best but also prepare for the worst
  8. Know that you will be okay no matter what the outcome may be

Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter and can make the process less stressful. If you are considering a divorce and just wish to talk through the options then call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors.    

By Claire Clark on 5 May 2017

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What is a prenuptial agreement?

Although you may not want to start thinking of divorce before you even get married – getting a prenuptial agreement may save you a lot of time and effort in the future, which could be upsetting and painful, if the marriage happens to fail.

A prenuptial agreement, is a contract made before the marriage that outlines the terms for separation. It is very important to protect yourself, just in case, worst comes to worst, and you find yourself or your partner filing for divorce.

You can list nearly anything you want. For example, stating that you will try mediation if you decide to divorce. Even a settlement about pets can be included. But there are also limits and legally you cannot demand things like child support or predetermine child custody arrangements.

Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter and can make the process less stressful. If you are considering a prenuptial agreement or your partner has requested it, call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors.

By Claire Clark on 5 May 2017

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Social Media and Divorce

One of the biggest mistakes people make during a divorce is revealing details of their divorce on social media, such as Facebook or Twitter, and this is an avoidable mistake.

Public posts, emails and text messages can, in some instances, be submitted to the Court. If one party in the marriage reveals something about a new job, new salary or an upcoming bonus, that hasn’t been disclosed, this can be used as evidence to show that the person isn’t being honest in their financial disclosure!

Here at Vines Legal, we always advise you to keep all private information private and that during a divorce you should keep your personal information off of social media. If you don’t want a Judge reading it, don’t write it!

If you’re going through a divorce, you can be certain your spouse and their solicitor are combing through your online life. Protect yourself by staying away from all of your social media related accounts until the divorce is finalised.

Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter and can make the process less stressful. If you are considering a divorce or your partner has requested it, call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors.

By Claire Clark on 5 May 2017

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I want to cohabit with a new partner – how will this affect my spousal maintenance?

As part of financial settlements following divorce, it is possible for one spouse to pay the other spousal maintenance. This is common where there is a large disparity between the spouses’ salaries or in cases where one spouse works and the other does not. Spousal maintenance can either be payable for a specified period of time, until an application is made to change the payments or until the payee dies or remarries.

It is possible that the payer will want to apply to the court to reduce maintenance payments once they are aware of the cohabitation. Recent case law has shown that cohabiting relationships will be taken into account by the Court when variation is applied for and they will only take into account what the cohabitee should be paying regardless of whether they are actually contributing anything or not. Therefore, the payee should be prepared to potentially have their maintenance payments reduced if they decide to cohabit with a new partner.

If you would like to discuss any aspect of divorce or financial settlement with an experienced solicitor, don’t hesitate to book a free, initial consultation today on 01246 555 610.

By Claire Clark on 8 Nov 2016

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Most Common Causes of Divorce

According to the most recent figures from the National Office of Statistics, divorce rates have dropped to the lowest they have been for 40 years, however, Britain still has the highest divorce rate compared to other European countries.

Co-op Legal Services have recently conducted a survey with divorced individuals to investigate the biggest causes of divorce in the United Kingdom. The results showed the following to be the most commonly expressed reasons for why proceedings were instigated:

  1. An inappropriate relationship with a third party
  2. The parties growing apart
  3. The parties falling out of love
  4. One party no longer being attracted to the other
  5. Only one party wanting children
  6. Work commitments straining the relationship
  7. Abuse of alcohol or drugs
  8. One party wanting to relocate
  9. The parties discovering that they have nothing in common
  10. Illness

The survey showed that 44% of women had initiated divorce proceedings due to their partner having an inappropriate relationship with someone else causing the marriage to break down. 42% of men, however, could not definitively explain the cause of their divorce and just felt that they had grown apart from their spouse.

The survey also covered the aspects of the process that the individuals found most stressful. The results showed that 20% thought the length of the process was the most difficult, 17% thought the confrontational nature of proceedings was the hardest and 16% found family members’ reactions to be most challenging.

Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter and can make the process less stressful. If you are considering divorce or your spouse has started divorce proceedings, call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors.

By Claire Clark on 2 Aug 2016

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Parenting and Divorce

Parenting styles can differ greatly after divorce. Some couples find it difficult to communicate or spend time together post-divorce and limit this to a minimum in order to avoid confrontation and arguments. On the other hand, some individuals take a more liberal approach and continue to participate in family holidays and activities together. While every couple will choose what is best for their situation, they will all agree that the most important thing is their children’s welfare.

5 tips for parenting effectively during divorce

  1. Take care of yourself

Divorce can be a stressful process and can be physically and mentally draining. In order to care for your family, you must first be in a position to do so. Looking after your health and mental wellbeing is crucial in enabling you to do this. Taking time out to relax and ensuring you maintain a proper diet and get enough sleep is important.

  1. Don’t speak negatively about your ex in front of the children

As difficult as it may be, speaking badly of your ex-partner will leave children feeling confused about their feelings and opinions and can often make them feel alienated. Keeping talk about your ex to a minimum or cutting it out altogether may be a sensible option until raw emotions have gone and you feel you are ready to speak less negatively about them.

  1. Try to stay as united as possible to co-parent effectively

Parents who disagree and argue about parenting issues can make children feel unsafe and insecure. Divorce creates disruptions in their lives, so trying to maintain as much stability as possible is key. It is natural for divorcing parents to want to indulge their children to try to make up for the distress they feel they are causing them, but what they really need are parents who are making sensible, joint decisions based on what is best for them.

  1. Create authentic communication with your children

It is important to be honest with your children and not be tempted to sugar-coat everything to try to shelter them from reality. It’s alright to show them how you feel as that will allow them to be honest and show you how they feel too.

  1. Be aware of your children

With so many changes happening, it’s easy to put all your energy into simply getting through the divorce. Your children may seem to handle it all well but it is important to keep an eye out for any indicators that they aren’t doing as well as they seem. Loss of appetite, lack of interest, more tantrums etc. are all signals that something might be troubling them.

If you are dealing with divorce, please call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors. Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter.

By Claire Clark on 31 Mar 2016

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Work and Divorce

Divorce or separation is a huge change for couples and children. The impact of this can greatly affect the family in all areas of life, at work, home or at school. The early stages of divorce or separation are when emotions and stress levels are often at their highest and employers can often detect at this point that something isn’t right at home.

Individuals can become overwhelmed by the upheaval of such a change whilst at the same time having to make important decisions; this in turn can make maintaining productivity and professional standards at work more challenging. On the other hand, for many people, work can be a pleasant distraction from what is happening at home and can provide future financial security.

Employers and colleagues can support their staff during divorce or separation by:

  • Guiding them to speak to the right people e.g. Counsellors or Family Law Specialists
  • Acknowledging the stress they are dealing with
  • Establishing whether there is anything that can be done to help at work e.g. more flexibility with hours
  • Understanding how they would like to deal with the situation – they may prefer to continue at work as though nothing were happening

If you or members of your staff are dealing with separation or divorce, please call 01246 555 610 to arrange a free, no obligation consultation with one of our experienced solicitors. Arming yourself with accurate legal information from the outset can be vital in the resolution of your matter.

By Claire Clark on 24 Mar 2016

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